Tense moment in Samads Community
Something happened...something WORST happened...somewhere in our Paris...around the Great Samads Society (ceh, bunyi cam gempak abis le pulak!)...and it somewhat bugging me...
To cut the crap short, just this morning (around 5 AM, I was staying up), I was reading "certain someone"'s blog...I always check any new entries from my favorite bloggers by looking at my Firefox built-in feeder. Since I notice that this "certain someone" has a new entry, I decided to read it.
On my first run, I thought that it was nothing malicious in that entry. That "certain someone" told an interesting story of himself with his gf on "certain ocassion". (oppss! Now you know that it is a boy)...Of course, he did use some harsh, unappropriate word, but I thought that he tried to make jokes...you know, 'gurau senda sesama jiran' kinda thing...If I were in that "certain ocassion" and that words are directed to me, I won't mind a bit...probably I didn't care at all...
Then, scrolling down until the Comment section....and...well, you probably heard a phrase "the tip of the pen is sharper than a sword", or something like that...different people have their own limit of tolerance...and obviously, different genders have different 'sensitivity level'..While I could stand those callous words, these "Commenters" couldn't...and I believed I knew why...after reread the entry, I thought that this "certain someone" had gone overboard...I mean, WAY over...
Just like those "Commenters" said, they hardly knew him, and it was true the other way around. But this "certain someone" maybe tried to act as he knew them very closely, so it's normal to use some 'fancy' words to describe certain people and event.
But it didn't work out, apparently...
And now, what happens in the Samads Gang community is a 'wierd' kind of war...it is called 'Blog War'...and each of the entry will try to counter each others blog, to proclaim their innocents and defend themselves...
Starting from that "certain someone" deleted his blog around 10 AM this morning...then the "Commenters" head of the pack, let me referred her as "another someone" (oppss! Now you know that it is a girl), starts the war...actually, her bf leads first...while this "another someone"'s bf gave a somewhat sinister kind of entry, she just burst it all out...I'm not sure when her bf post it, but she posts hers around 4:45 PM....not only that..she actually re-edit her previous entry so that there are no more referals to this "certain someone" anymore...(the funny thing is, there are still two pictures of him available, although there's another one of them has been replaced...)
And I thought that it was over....But then, what's a war if there's no 'counter-attack'...
and so, it's this "certain someone"'s turn, launched a vigorious assault to "another someone" just now, in his blog (around 6:30 PM)...
While I had to admit that I actually 'enjoyed' this kinda fight (I'm waiting for "another someone" to arrange her next attacking strategies), I think that overall, this is totally ridiculous...I mean, C'MON, cut the shit out, why don't just you two (and others) get along?
I am not trying to 'guard beside other people's clothes', being a busy body, or act as an intermediary between them...but since this happens in my neighbourhood, at least I should know what's going on...Simply refer me as an "Outsider", where I watched, I think, and I react whenever possible...I'm not sure whether there's a probability of me being in their 'hate' list after this blog, and potentially join the 'Blog War' bandwagon...
I think that the win-win solution would be...that "certain someone" should apologize for what he said (and did) since he may not know those "Commenter"'s degree of patience and toleration for insensitive words. While for the "Commenter", especially "another someone", they should just not easily lost their cool for this kind of matter...this is not an issue to be gab about too seriously...we all 23 years old, don't we? It's just a 'glitches',a part and parcel of our friendship life....
But anyway, kudos to "certain someone", coz from what I see, he actually attempts to be 'friendly' (although he failed miserably)...and to "another someone", I think you are also correct on the lack of social skill in him, coz I believed I also had this kind of attitude...I'm not sure whether I'm gonna talk about it more since I've already mentioned it numerous times in my past blog...
PS - That "certain someone" may had deleted his entry, but I actually already SAVE it before he did it! Why? because I somehow knew that this would happen...For those who want to read it, you have to buy me a pizza (de ja vu, anyone?)...just kidding...I think that it's better that you don't read it anyway...
To cut the crap short, just this morning (around 5 AM, I was staying up), I was reading "certain someone"'s blog...I always check any new entries from my favorite bloggers by looking at my Firefox built-in feeder. Since I notice that this "certain someone" has a new entry, I decided to read it.
On my first run, I thought that it was nothing malicious in that entry. That "certain someone" told an interesting story of himself with his gf on "certain ocassion". (oppss! Now you know that it is a boy)...Of course, he did use some harsh, unappropriate word, but I thought that he tried to make jokes...you know, 'gurau senda sesama jiran' kinda thing...If I were in that "certain ocassion" and that words are directed to me, I won't mind a bit...probably I didn't care at all...
Then, scrolling down until the Comment section....and...well, you probably heard a phrase "the tip of the pen is sharper than a sword", or something like that...different people have their own limit of tolerance...and obviously, different genders have different 'sensitivity level'..While I could stand those callous words, these "Commenters" couldn't...and I believed I knew why...after reread the entry, I thought that this "certain someone" had gone overboard...I mean, WAY over...
Just like those "Commenters" said, they hardly knew him, and it was true the other way around. But this "certain someone" maybe tried to act as he knew them very closely, so it's normal to use some 'fancy' words to describe certain people and event.
But it didn't work out, apparently...
And now, what happens in the Samads Gang community is a 'wierd' kind of war...it is called 'Blog War'...and each of the entry will try to counter each others blog, to proclaim their innocents and defend themselves...
Starting from that "certain someone" deleted his blog around 10 AM this morning...then the "Commenters" head of the pack, let me referred her as "another someone" (oppss! Now you know that it is a girl), starts the war...actually, her bf leads first...while this "another someone"'s bf gave a somewhat sinister kind of entry, she just burst it all out...I'm not sure when her bf post it, but she posts hers around 4:45 PM....not only that..she actually re-edit her previous entry so that there are no more referals to this "certain someone" anymore...(the funny thing is, there are still two pictures of him available, although there's another one of them has been replaced...)
And I thought that it was over....But then, what's a war if there's no 'counter-attack'...
and so, it's this "certain someone"'s turn, launched a vigorious assault to "another someone" just now, in his blog (around 6:30 PM)...
While I had to admit that I actually 'enjoyed' this kinda fight (I'm waiting for "another someone" to arrange her next attacking strategies), I think that overall, this is totally ridiculous...I mean, C'MON, cut the shit out, why don't just you two (and others) get along?
I am not trying to 'guard beside other people's clothes', being a busy body, or act as an intermediary between them...but since this happens in my neighbourhood, at least I should know what's going on...Simply refer me as an "Outsider", where I watched, I think, and I react whenever possible...I'm not sure whether there's a probability of me being in their 'hate' list after this blog, and potentially join the 'Blog War' bandwagon...
I think that the win-win solution would be...that "certain someone" should apologize for what he said (and did) since he may not know those "Commenter"'s degree of patience and toleration for insensitive words. While for the "Commenter", especially "another someone", they should just not easily lost their cool for this kind of matter...this is not an issue to be gab about too seriously...we all 23 years old, don't we? It's just a 'glitches',a part and parcel of our friendship life....
But anyway, kudos to "certain someone", coz from what I see, he actually attempts to be 'friendly' (although he failed miserably)...and to "another someone", I think you are also correct on the lack of social skill in him, coz I believed I also had this kind of attitude...I'm not sure whether I'm gonna talk about it more since I've already mentioned it numerous times in my past blog...
PS - That "certain someone" may had deleted his entry, but I actually already SAVE it before he did it! Why? because I somehow knew that this would happen...For those who want to read it, you have to buy me a pizza (de ja vu, anyone?)...just kidding...I think that it's better that you don't read it anyway...
ces....sempat eh ko save page tu...jgn ader niat jahat udah lar...aku pun dah tak turun sana....so tak der hal lar...adios...chow cin cau...
Posted by
Anonymous |
Friday, September 23, 2005 8:40:00 PM
ni dah dekat bulan posa dah ni wahai rakan rakanku..harap2nye bile dah masok bulan raya nanti takyahla ingat2 kisah2 lame tu.bukan boleh jadik motivasi untuk memperbaiki diri pun ye tak.tak untung ape2 pon kalu simpan lame2 kat hati.yang paling baik sekali adalah komitmen kite seterusnye untuk masing2 dapat meruntuhkan ego dalam diri,,minta maap sempena syawal tahun ni.ok just cadangan dari aku yang tak seberapa ni.keep in touch.
"learn from difficulties".
Posted by
Anonymous |
Saturday, September 24, 2005 12:01:00 PM
hello fren.
i knew u had ur eyes on my page. jgn laa segan2 nak komen kat page aku pas ni ok .. :) drop some words if u wanted to.
and probably, u didnn't really know what exactly happened on that day. hahaha. klaka kan? but one thing for sure, kerana mulut badan binasa, dan jgn carik psl kalau xberani tanggung akibat. see ya.
Posted by
FrH |
Wednesday, September 28, 2005 1:40:00 AM